Well, I'm not out at work!! I live in New Orleans and the prejudice against homosexuals is unbelievable-so much ignorance! In my case, my department is very small-i am one of the three women in it. At this point of my life, its not worth outing myse…
j, I'm not going to even pretend I know how you're feeling because I don't. I was blessed enough to grow up in a home and attend schools (yes, Catholic) that believed in inclusion at all costs, and that gays were not of the devil or going to hell. W…
I'm currently in a relationship with an ex-catholic and I feel that her "saints" are always with us, even in bed. The only advise that I have for you is to learn about organized religion. Learn the truth about how it can control you and not allow fo…
Well. ive had a struggle with this myself. it's something that i've decided to let go of. i now believe that it is okay not to know the complete answer to everything. and i surely do not . but i'm at peace with that. i don't feel like i have to be t…
Thought I'd share this story of a sister who's found peace with being gay AND being Christian. Hope her story, her message and her music bring you peace and strength, sistawoman.
Rizi Nasele Timane’ was born in Northern Nigeria, West Africa in a f…
I hear your struggle and the best advice I can offer is to stop struggling. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Religion is what tells us that we have issues because we love the same sex. However, true Christianity does not do that. I am a C…
I agree with all those who advise you to pray. Pray not for forgiveness but for understanding of God's ways. He is our final judge and I've struggled with the same dilemma as you but, God is merciful and loving and full of grace. These things should…
People going to think what they want to think regardless of what you say. The world is full of homophobes. Personally I challenge them by questioning their logic behind their negative comments, tear their responsees up and then laugh as they try to…
I do not see anything wrong with labelling as long as that is what it is. To say that something is this this and that is fine. Adjectives are an important aspect of our lives. However, when ASSUMPTIONS are attached those labels, that is where people…
1. I do not know if decided-I want to go though. Just concerned b/c if I go, I will be solo. I am a pretty outgoing person but its a bit unnerving to step out and go somewhere new by yourself. Dying to see Goddess and She perform and of course Ms. W…
I WENT THROUGH THE SAME WITH MY UP BRINGING THAT ME BEING A LESBIAN WAS WRONG . AND THAT I WOULD BE PUNISHISHED FOR IT. I LEARNED THAT NO MATTER WHAT GOD LOVES , AND I FEEL THAT HE WILL NOT CONDEM ME TO HELL FOR LOVING THE SAME SEX. I MEAN LOVE IS L…
Native New Orleanian-charismatic and lovely-inside and out! I love the iloveupeople site, so I'm sure I will love this site also. Just looking for chat buddies. I'm happy and single so I am enjoying my "me" time. :o)
And yes-I did take my profile pic at work! LOL
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you know what? I'm not even sure what hotel it was. I had to do all my photography from a moving vehicle because the streets were too crowded to park anywhere. I'm gonna see more of the city next time i go...