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August 10
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Coffee wit' a lil cream and Cynthia are now friends
August 10
i am currently overseas and missed the "original" broadcast and have been trying to find the articles to get the "first" story. i've read both above tagged documents. from the 5-6 documents/articles that i've read all except the interview say the sa…
July 29
Yes ur right,we do tend to date opposite but me on the other hand it really does not matter . I think its all about attraction.
June 1
I like this one because it sounds like the conversation we already had. I like the way u think, I like how I feel as I read your soul in print. U make me feel as if U were talking to me. Me and only me. But speaking into a crowd of people hopping, n…
June 1
Powerful and deeper then even most woman want to think. U R one Bad Sista
June 1
Valid point! That said, do u thnk its a generational event resulting from the success of the "mvmnt"? An older friend attributes the lack of a vehicle (legalized marriage) tht smehw legitimizes th rlationship.
May 21
Here's something to think about . . . . What happened to getting to know a person and choosing to be with them, because your personalities are complimentary? I honestly believe there in lies the answer to why few relationships last long term.
May 21
Coffee wit' a lil cream and Ahlean are now friends
May 5
Very valid point. I have noticed that as well..............white people don't mind dating someone who looks like them. Our black LGBT community has too many rules.......if you’re a fem you gotta date a stud, two studs together is nasty, and two fems…
March 26
On 26 March....I wrote: i have noticed that caucasians aren't as wrapped around the "male/female" thing as we might be. i think the heavily rooted in the church and the level of denial by the black community plays a big role...i am going to include…
March 26
Coffee wit' a lil cream added a discussion
Okay, so a few of us were having a debate prior to the game yesterday, about women and the type of women we pick (black vs white). My very good friend and I say black women tend to pick something opposite of them, fem and dom with the exception bein…
March 26
amen sistah on the plan for the real treasure! i am wreckin' my brain but i can't think of a one! i never know until i know and then it's gone. that said....maybe....ronnie williamson! sexy eyes, smooth walk and talk, nice body...not to thick and no…
March 22
BLUF: i am not trans-gender so i don't understand what they deal with on a daily bases and i don't profess to know. i am not by any stretch of the imagination slandering or belittling their situation in any way, shape or fashion...and my apologize i…
March 6

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Excited about the direction PLUS are heading and hoping when the time comes, I can be more like U people!

I recently asked family and friends "How would you describe me to someone who doesn't know me?‏" and this is what they said:

o 5'8 (actually 5'8.5"),Slender built, caramel brown' quiet disposition, full eyes, bright smile, and black hair

o Honest, soft spoken, funny, private person, enjoys meditating to relax, and enjoys spending time with that special someone whenever possible

o Smart, has a good heart, and she marches to her own drummer

o Complicated, Intelligent, Focused, Obedient, Wise, Beautiful, Survivor, Seeker, Kind, and Honest

o Simple, Sensitive, Caring, Witty (white), and a great catch. You can be romantic in a way.

as i...

cruise down these last few miles on this side of I-turn-50 the road gets a little smoother and the scene a little nicer! although my path is like the breeze blowing on any given day in march, i trust in God and know that i will end up exactly where He wants me to be! albeit, past performances can be a predictor of future behavior, as i travel these last few miles, i am willing to throw in a few curve balls...just to let you know i can. so, if you desire, you are more than welcome to ride with me...but just remember...you can't smoke the wee-da in my two-see-ta!

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Some of the things you`ve heard are true
and
Some of the things are false, but
I have learned one thing
Over the course of my [short] life...
No matter what the truth of the matter is,
People are going to believe what they want to believe, so....

For those people out there who
Want to believe what their "friends" tell them about me
so that they
can justify hating me and
some how rationalize their short comings and
maybe, just maybe
they can find a way to live with the person they aren`t!

Posted on February 19, 2009 at 1:19am —

Coffee wit' a lil cream

Is This Him?

Is this him?
Is this the guy
who thought by
throwing you down
and tearing you apart
would some how
make him
a man?

Tell me
this is not
him
because last night
he was talkin` about
black man this
black man that can`t
be one in the same `cause
I thought he was different
but it was just another scam

Uh, excuse me sir,
but could you please help me to understand
How violating this womon`s womb
has made you
more of a
man

What was it?
What could it have been?
Did it some how validate
your existence a… Continue

Posted on January 29, 2009 at 2:52pm — 4 Comments

Coffee wit' a lil cream

In response to something i read

but if....
we don't look back
every so often then
how will we know for sure how far we have come.

but if....
we don't look back
every so often then
we might forget how strong we've grown

but if...
we don't look back
every so often then
we truly are doomed to repeat the past

but if...
we don't look back
every so often then
how will we remember those things we were suppose to forget

how will we bring forth the traditions of our ancestors and
teach the young of the struggles,
the heart aches an… Continue

Posted on January 29, 2009 at 1:56pm —

Coffee wit' a lil cream

Can I Get a...

glass of water 'cause my throat is still dry from the heat you generated from last night's journey into the unknown! my mind is still trippin' over the fact that...and my body keeps re-living it over-and-over-and-over.

the womon in me is very satisfied and content with the decision(s) made...thus far!

the child in me looks to the future with the hope and trust that only a child can!

my heart struggles to keep both feet firmly planted on the ground, 'cause this is not the time to go leapin' an… Continue

Posted on January 29, 2009 at 1:52pm — 1 Comment

Coffee wit' a lil cream

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it's not fair
having to wait all these years
all these years that have felt like
an eternity
an eternity to see
you to feel
you to hold
you in my arms once more

it's not fair
that you left me alone
to face this cruel world with it's traps
and it's snares
without the one thing
the one person that would have made it all worth it

with the passing of each life i pray
for rest
for resolution
for you only
to awaken with the birth of a new soul and
a realization that i
am forever caught
stuck in this… Continue

Posted on January 29, 2009 at 1:43pm —

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At 6:51pm on August 10, 2009, Cynthia said…
I try to live it out to the fullest! Love me or not, if you chose not you're missing out on love and that's the other persons fault. LOL
At 8:17pm on March 24, 2009, Locd Psyience said…
i am a direct 'descendent' of the seduction of 70s slow jams...as i was conceived to the sweet sultry Betcha By Golly Wow....in the back of a red Cougar in Dru' Hill Park....

may the 'deep' forever rest soundly within u....
At 5:44pm on January 29, 2009, Red Summer said…
wow, i remember feeling all that when i was in gambia. it was rough to have children almost fight for one pencil... heartbreaking.
At 1:50am on January 28, 2009, Red Summer said…
hello darling. how are you?
At 3:16pm on January 11, 2009, Dreamwalker said…
Thanks for coming through and spreading luv. Your comment sparked memories back to Saturday mornings, planted in the front room watching Kung Fu theater followed by Soul Train. Heyyy...i just made the connection (KFt+ST=AS). LOL Stay up
At 5:45pm on January 10, 2009, Red Summer said…
you are hilarious. enjoyed your writing. how are you?
 
 
 

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