STRAIGHT MEN!!!!

WHY DO MOST STRAIGHT MEN THINK THAT THEY CAN CHANGE MOST LESIBAN WOMEN?

Permalink Reply by Chaulai on February 12, 2009 at 9:33am: One word......EGO EGO EGO EGO EGO EGO........You don't how many times I've heard "Yo baby i can change you" or something to that effect. What makes them think I would even give them a chance. The question boggles my mind.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Jwahari is Royce Hall on February 14, 2009 at 10:57pm: oooooh I agree; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Bebe Vasquez on February 14, 2009 at 8:39pm: ha... because its men... they think they have the power to change anything..... smh
but truth be told.... we have the [power] and always will......; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by diane on February 14, 2009 at 9:25pm: I KNOW THATS RIGHT GIRL!!! THANK YOU; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Hanifah Walidah on February 14, 2009 at 9:26pm: Men do not have an intimate grasp on the process of creation so they subsequently must control waht has been created. And what they can't control they want to destroy. Whether that may be; another man or people or lesbian. I've said this many times that society has done itself a grave injustice by not teaching and instilling in boys/men a more indepth understanding and respect for "emotional intelligence". They unfortunately have in one hand a very upfront and in your face relationship with sex, but yet can't touch each other (platonically) for more than 3 seconds. Even gay men can't communicate to much outside of sex. They demand or expect of women to do and be as they envision, but deny themselves basic human physical interaction that we all need to emotionally survive. In other words, that's why they wrestle and hide behind their might appendage. Sometimes I feel that men as we know them in this age are living just a fraction of their capacity as humans but unfortunately for the rest of us are given a false sense of importance over anyone who is not a man.

Bottom line, I'm so glad I was not born one. But yet I love and at times pray for the ones dear to me. At times I truly do want to physically hurt some men, but at the end of the day I am saddened that we truly have not seen men as maybe they were meant to be.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by diane on February 14, 2009 at 9:33pm: THANK YOU !!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by thru'Ntrue on February 15, 2009 at 1:21pm: I agree to an extent. I've been fortunate to meet many men in my life, gay/straight that have come to grip with their feminine side and it's been a blessing. These men have very loving and lasting relationships with either there partners or wives because they do not try to control but react. Men who think the can change a lesbian are not in charge of their emotional interactions, but as you stated, their might appendage. But they're not to blame totally, some of it, is us.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by diane on February 15, 2009 at 4:40pm: THATS TRUE ALSO!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Jwahari is Royce Hall on February 14, 2009 at 10:56pm: It's a challenge and a matter of conquering. To obtain what seems to be the impossible would warrant award amongst some men; "Look at what I did".; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Ladie Fire on February 16, 2009 at 12:37pm: I wish I knew, maybe it would answer the question to why they think all bisexual women are confused or are really into threesomes, when that couldn't be any further from the truth.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Kia on February 18, 2009 at 10:08pm: Hmm, ego has a lot to do with it. Sadly, there are people out there who think lesbians are women who can't get a man, or haven't found the right man yet. I don't get hit on my men much, so I guess I'm not the one who should be answering this question anyways. haha.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by diane on February 21, 2009 at 12:19am: YOUR IT IS EGO!!!!; ▶ Reply to This

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