Don't Touch Me

[umberluv]

I was talking to a girl the other day. I guess you would consider her butch or aggressive girl. I actually didn't ask her what she called herself, because I don't know how to approach labels well. Anyway we were talking about intimacy and she mentioned to me that she doesn't like her partner to touch her passion fruit. She doesn't want her to go down on her. I asked her how does she receive pleasure? She says she receives it in giving it. Now I've talked to a lot of people that are sexually stimulated from giving others pleasure. That would be nice for me if I wasn't so selfish. I want to get mine as well... aaalthough I have been with women that couldn't break the obvious coding that my hand has with my passion fruit to actually bring my waterfalls but hey in time I guess. Anywho my question is giving pleasure enough for you to get yours or do you want her to take the same stroll downtown that you take.

[Hadeev Likwidluv]

I am more sexually stimulated by giving pleasure, but I also like to receive it as well. I've never been with anyone who didn't want to be touched or pleasured. I can't see myself denying someone the chance to touch me and do whatever she'd want, if giving pleasure is how she gets off.

[Isoke]

This is a good one,
I am a equal opportunity employer....so I need my woman to be a team player if you catch my drift.....
I get pleasure from giving, but Im going to need the same in return

[Jamie]

Hell when it comes to me and my girl she doesnt play on that lay on your back shit... she will tell me sex involves two people puttin in work just not one person doing everything...And i love giving pleasure and recieving so i must say like the girl above me im an equal opportunity employer lol

[diane]

IT IS CRAZY BUT I DATED SOMEONE WHO DIDNT LIKE BEING TOUCH, I WAS MISERABLE WITH HER I LIKE TO TOUCH AS WELL BE TOUCH. I COULDNT CONTINUE TO BE WITH HER BECAUSE I WASNT HAPPY BEING THE AS THEY SAY PILLOW QUEEN!!!!

[less-hate-MORE-love!]

I give to take! lol! But that issue has always puzzled me.. maybe she's afraid of the vunerability that an intense orgasm can bring. People do some weird things once u take them there ! :P

[Neje Bailey]

I have never been turned down by my partner. However there have been times when she has just wanted to make me "happy" and that was enough for her. I would have loads of problems if I were with someone who couldn't or wouldn't want to be "pleasured" .

[Cynthia]

This is a very interesting question. If we have to use labels (and I don't think we do), but for the sake of the discussion I would consider myself a soft butch or aggressive girl. I am also someone who is extremely sexual. I get an intense amount of pleasure from giving, but I think that is part of my nature. During lovemaking I can reach orgasm from giving to my partner. However, it is not the same orgasm as achieved when my partner gives to me. So, my answer is "Hell yeah I want to receive as well as give." I just find that I am most happy with around a 60 - 40 split with sex. Me giving the 60 and receiving the 40. I have no understanding of not wanting to be touched. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with it, it just doesn't work for me. My ultimate goal would be to makelove to my partner so well that she is too weak to return the favor. Wake me up after you sleep a bit and we can go again. LOL

[BigBadButch]

I am a stud. I have never even had a girl offer to go down on me! What's up with that?

[Shar]

Not even offer? Yea what iz up wit that?

[Au_Naturale]

I would have to say that I love to give, but receiving is just as good. I think it either depends on someones comfort level or just someone's preference.

[Shar]

Most def i'd want her to share the pleezure! I'd feel like i was cheating her out of the lil slice of heaven. But i wouldn't want to force the issue especially if it meant going beyond their comfort zone. We all have things we find no plezure in so we should be mindful of others. So whatever way gives her plezure, whichever way makes her hold me tight, "sing" the loudest, i'm all for it!

[RealSoul9]

Though I do LOVE receiving, I have actually had an orgasm from giving my partner oral sex. It is testament to what I've always said, the brain is the most erotic sex organ there is.